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        <![CDATA[ We have some internal problems on my developmental 15&#39;s team. I have two girls who are among the best on the team, but treat others on the team very
poorly.  Very little of it is overt and I do not hear most of it, except second hand. On top of that are some parents of very sheltered girls who are worried
these girls are going to negatively influence their daughters.  They want me to &quot;do something&quot; about these girls(and have lots of suggestions).  I
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			<title><![CDATA[ Re: Problem players  ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ Thank you for all of the suggestions and insight.  I have teamed up with their high school head coach ( I teach there, but do not coach ) to address these two
as I found they are doing the same thing in spring training at school.  One comment about young enough to change reflects why I care, because I think with
management, they can.  I also know they need individual &quot;attention&quot;, but believe group consequences are needed too. Thanks again. ]]></description>

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			<title><![CDATA[ Re: Problem players  ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ Don&#39;t know if this was covered, but I had the same problem when coaching basketball years ago. I had another coach come in and run my practice while I
watched from the bleachers. It was the first time I got to really see what was going around me. I had been focusing on the players in the drill. Now I got to
see ALL the players. We had several team &quot;meetings&quot; after that and it helped to clear the air. As I said, it helped somewhat, but the girls were high
schoolers. ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ by making the whole team run or do a drill over and over . The other girls then will get on the other players back and say straiting up or this will never
end...i do think you should all so go after the problem player with running by her self but you have todo it where she is looking from the outside...when she
is running have the other players do something fun and earn things like candy or something....she will then see working as a team can work for her to....all so
I am bigtexbro not... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Wed, 23 Apr 2008 01:57:32 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Re: Problem players  ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ If I got it wrong EI, I&#39;m sorry...you always give good advice and I&#39;d hate to get on your bad side (goodness knows I will need your advice in the not
too distant future). I went back and reread both situations and I think they are similar, with the only difference being who is being disrespected. In the
&quot;bad apples&quot; thread it was the coaches and in this one, it is their teammates. Both involve two suspect players:
<br>
<br>
&quot;Our outside AND middle have completely shut... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Tue, 22 Apr 2008 21:01:02 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Re: Problem players  ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ Please tell me that before my &quot;time&quot; is over in this game of volleyball, there will be an end to this group punishment. The guilty should pay for
their ways, not the players who are giving it their all. Find out who is at fault and deal with it directly. You risk resentment when you punish players who
are giving you all they have and you treat them unfairly. ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Tue, 22 Apr 2008 16:40:21 GMT</pubDate>
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			<title><![CDATA[ Re: Problem players  ]]></title>
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			<description><![CDATA[ <blockquote>
  <strong class="quote-title">VBCoach22 wrote:</strong>
  <hr>
  Seems like there are two schools of thought here on how to deal with this situation (based on the previous thread).
  <br>
  <br>
  1.) Correct the two individuals through group punishment
  <br>
  2.) Correct the two individuals by punishing the two individuals
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  While bigtex and EI seem to rely more on #1...
</blockquote>That&#39;s an incorrect interpretation of my position on these things.  If there... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Tue, 22 Apr 2008 12:51:20 GMT</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[ ktbugsmon, there was a similar thread to this a week ago (bad apples)...I pushed it to the top, there may be some good advice in there for you.
<br>
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Seems like there are two schools of thought here on how to deal with this situation (based on the previous thread).
<br>
<br>
1.) Correct the two individuals through group punishment
<br>
2.) Correct the two individuals by punishing the two individuals
<br>
<br>
While bigtex and EI seem to rely more on #1, I tend towards #2, at least in this... ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ I&#39;d think about it like the Marines... how do they build &quot;esprit de corps?&quot;
<br>
<br>
Partly, the answer is &quot;shared pain, shared challenges, shared successes, and shared failures/consequences.&quot; Make practices really, really hard...
give them goals to achieve that require all 10 players working together. Give them all the challenge of getting every player over the net (think about that one
for a second). Blindfold them all, rope them all together, and give them an... ]]></description>

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			<description><![CDATA[ First get them all togather in a group...Tell them one more time you hear of any bull like this they will be running until there legs hurt and then your going
to run them more....make the whole team run not just the one player or group of girls....I know this sounds wrong but at that age they need to understand to
leave the potty mouths at home and not bring it to the gym...I have seen this in the past and you hit it on the head that it will turn in to bad team if not
stoped....Just be up... ]]></description>

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			<pubDate>Tue, 22 Apr 2008 00:46:46 GMT</pubDate>
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			<description><![CDATA[ We have some internal problems on my developmental 15&#39;s team. I have two girls who are among the best on the team, but treat others on the team very
poorly.  Very little of it is overt and I do not hear most of it, except second hand. On top of that are some parents of very sheltered girls who are worried
these girls are going to negatively influence their daughters.  They want me to &quot;do something&quot; about these girls(and have lots of suggestions).  I
thought practice had gone... ]]></description>

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